Reflection on Nalanda Patron’s Day

Reflection on Nalanda Patron’s Day

On Wednesday 18 March 2026, Nalanda Buddhist Society commemorated Nalanda Patron’s Day, the first of the seven observance days in its annual calendar.  Despite it being a working day, Society leaders, members, volunteers, and youth leaders gathered at Buddhist Maha Vihara to offer dāna and conduct a spiritual ceremony.  It was a meaningful occasion to acknowledge, treasure, and deeply cherish the immense contributions of all patrons including teachers, leaders, donors, benefactors, members, devotees, supporters, and volunteers, towards Nalanda’s educational mission.

Why 18 March? What is its significance?

This date marks the birth anniversary of the late K. Sri Dhammananda, Nalanda’s first Spiritual Advisor, who also gave Nalanda its name. Although born in Sri Lanka, Venerable devoted his entire life to the propagation of the Dhamma, not only in Malaysia, but across the world. His tireless missionary spirit remains an inspiring role model for both monastic and lay communities.

On this day, a future son of the Buddha was born. One who would go on to benefit countless beings. May we walk courageously in his footsteps, supporting the flourishing of the Buddha’s teachings so that they may reach many more. With deep reverence, we offer our boundless gratitude to the Venerable.

To mark this special occasion, Sis Nandinī Tan led the assembly in reflecting on the virtue of gratitude. She highlighted that gratitude goes beyond mere appreciation — it calls for action. Three key reflections were shared:

  1. Strengthening ourselves to give back
    We repay our patrons not only through words, but by cultivating inner strength and emulating their noble qualities. While we may not all do great things, we can do small things with great care and sincerity, contributing meaningfully to this shared mission.
  2. Stepping forward with courage
    When opportunities arise, we should have the courage to take on responsibilities, especially when others are unable to. Rather than shrinking back, we step forward in service.
  3. Persevering with resilience
    True gratitude strengthens our resolve. Even in the face of challenges, we remain steadfast, committed, and undeterred in supporting Nalanda’s educational mission.

As I sat in the Dhamma Hall, I realised how privileged we are to walk this path together with our late Venerable — each in our own capacity, yet united in purpose. He once reminded us, “The purpose of our lives is to serve others; without serving others, we cannot truly serve ourselves.”

A life well lived is never forgotten. It continues to live on in the hearts of many.

Happy Patron’s Day.

Reflection from Sis. Paruadi